How To Use CBT Tools To Help Generalized Anxiety Disorder GAD
We each have a biological, built-in alarm device: worry. When worry is used wisely, it can be very helpful. it alerts us to danger and prompts us to navigate our way through a maze of solutions to life’s various problems.
We need to think through our options when we are faced with problems, weighing the benefits and pitfalls of each alternative, and then come up with the best solution.
From there we take action which, we hope, solves the problem. Worry is helpful when it is used at the right time and at the right level for resolving our difficulties. Like many things in life, however, too little worry, or too much of it, can be harmful.
Too little worry can result in impulsive decisions which may result in unfortunate consequences. Some people are high risk-takers who may not worry enough about problems – they may win, but just as often, they lose.
Others avoid worry through substance abuse or other addictive behaviors and then lack the motivation and insight to deal realistically with life’s expected problems. Similarly, a laid-back, come-what-may approach, while it has some merits, sometimes suggests passivity and a lack of ability to participate in the complexity of life’s experiences.
Some people start to worry too much. Rather than solving a problem, the worry itself becomes the problem. Not only does excessive worry create personal suffering, but it also affects the people around the worrier.
Worry is a fairly common, but potentially serious, condition. A recent survey suggests that approximately one-third of all office visits to primary-care physicians are associated with some form of anxiety.
Furthermore, it has been estimated that one-fourth of all people, over the course of a lifetime, will at some point suffer from symptoms associated with an anxiety-related diagnosis. The stress which accompanies worry can have serious physical implications, including an increased risk for blood pressure and heart ailments, immune system deficiencies, and cancer.
Most people who worry excessively are well aware of their tendencies, although some simply view it as their normal state of affairs. (Indeed, some people like to worry because they feel that their mind is more active and worry allows them to feel more in touch with their inner experience.)
The worrier is one who feels in jeopardy but believes that he or she lacks the ability to take action in the real world to solve the problem. Some people who worry feel that if only they can think the problem through repetitively, sometimes day after day, the problem will magically disappear.
And many people worry about things they have no control over anyway. In truth, excessive worry does not solve problems. Worriers harbor their problems in their imagination and often cannot find a way break free to the stage of taking action.
Many treatable conditions are associated with worry. For some people, worry is simply a habit or an entrenched way of dealing with life’s conflicts. But for others it is a symptom of an underlying condition which may be amenable to psychotherapeutic and/or medication intervention, such as Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD).
Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD)
People with GAD lead fairly normal lives, but they worry about things that most of us can more easily brush off. They find it difficult to let go of their worries, and this may have a genetic or biological basis.
For the person with GAD, any event can prompt an automatic response to interpret things in a negative and fearful way, and this can lead to a cascade of worry.
Psychotherapy can be very effective in helping a person learn to think positively and to let go of distressing thoughts, and sometimes anti-anxiety medication can be used judiciously as an adjunct to therapy.
Aside from these treatments, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy can also offer powerful tools to help you manage anxiety, and feel more in control again.
Tips For Managing Anxiety
• Find Connectedness.
When we feel connected to something larger than ourselves (a group of friends, our families, work, a sense of the past, ideas, and religious or transcendent faith), we are less likely to worry.
• Seek Advice and Reassurance.
We all need supportive feedback from others from time to time. Other people may have solutions to problems that we haven’t thought about. For reassur- ance, find people who know how to give it. Many of us spend a lifetime looking in all the wrong places for approval.
• Understand the Difference Between Good Worry and Unproductive Worry.
Good worry implies having a sense of control in solving life’s problems. It involves examining alternatives and then coming up with a systematic plan for meeting a challenge. Unproductive worry involves engaging in repetitively hashing over the same ideas time and again, negative thoughts, and no real plan for meeting the challenge.
• Try to Do the Right Thing.
Maintain your sense of integrity whenever you do something. Tell the truth. Obey the law. Keep to your promises. Let your conscience be your guide. Granted, we might tell an occasional lie or break a promise, and this is fairly common – but it also can set the stage for worry. We may think sometimes that we can get ahead in the world the easy way – but the price we pay could be excessive worry, among other penalties.
• Sleep and Eat Properly.
Lack of sleep and a nutritious diet can make us irri- table, distracted, and anxious – all conditions that set the stage for worry. (Try to be mindful of the problem of overeating, however, as a way of making your worries disappear.)
• Exercise.
Try to get at least half an hour of aerobic exercise every other day (this could be walking in your neighborhood). Exercise helps us dissipate the anxiety that often accompanies worry.
• Avoid Substance Abuse.
Drugs and alcohol may give the illusion of comfort for the time being, but using them has negative longterm consequences. They increase depression, cloud your judgment, and may give you something to really worry about later.
• Add Structure to Your Life.
Worry is often related to disorganization. Make a list of things to do each day and cross off tasks once they are completed. Leave early enough to make appointments on time. Put your keys in the same place every time you come home. Keep your house straightened up. When things are under control, there is less to worry about.
• Minimize Catastrophic Thinking.
Some people find it difficult to keep perspective when faced with even a minor stressor. Not every mole means cancer and not every bill is going to lead to bankruptcy. Test out the reality of these situations by talking them over with a trusted friend.
• Keep a Pad by Your Bed and Make a Note of a Problem.
Rather than tossing and turning all night as you worry about a problem, jot down a note about the problem and resolve to get to sleep – and then consider the problem in the light of the next day.
• Limit Your Exposure to the News.
Although there is value in keeping up with the latest news, understand that the media focus on bad news since this tends to sell best. We seldom hear about the good news in the world on TV or newspapers. Constant exposure to negative events increases our tendency to worry. Instead, look for what is good in life.
• Keep Yourself Financially Secure.
Live below your means and put money into a sav- ings account. Pay off credit card debts. Consider ways to live more simply as a way of managing your finances.
• Learn the Value of Judicious Complaining.
Sometimes it helps to talk your way through a prob- lem by complaining about it. Find a trusted friend and just let it all out. And then have a good laugh about it afterwards. If a friend is not available, write out your complaints.
• Learn how to Let Go of Worries.
This is a skill which might require some practice, and each of us will have our way of doing it. Some people do this by allowing themselves perhaps half an hour a day of worry time – and at the end of the allotted time period, they will be free of worrying until the next day. Some people give up their wor- ries by writing them down on a piece of paper and then tearing up the paper. Some people prefer to hand them over to a higher power. There are mind- fulness meditation techniques for letting go of your worrisome thoughts – just decide not to participate in anxiety-provoking thinking. Let the thoughts go (this method takes practice and uses techniques that increase your awareness through meditation or prayer).
• Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff.
And, in a sense, if you think about it, it’s almost all small stuff.
Every person is an individual so you may need to try a few of the above suggestions to find the ones that make the most difference for you. But as always….